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Re: DON'T KNOW HOW TO LET GO

Thank you very much. I am trying my hardest for my baby. She deserves a healthy mom. It is a hard battle each day. I miss her dad so much but I know for my own sake and hers I have to let go.

Re: DON'T KNOW HOW TO LET GO

I feel for you because I understand what you're going through. I happened to be a relationship transformation coach and my expertise is helping women with relationship patterns and issues. A simple exercise that you could do is sit up on a chair in a quiet room for 15 minutes and do some simple breathing exercise, concentrating on your breathing and breathing only. When thoughts come up don't fight them, just observe them as an outside without judgment. This exercise is a great beginning. Try it.

Re: DON'T KNOW HOW TO LET GO

If you haven’t started divorce proceeding yet, the process will reveal his many selfish facets which will definitely facilitate severing ties with him. Parenting classes may be recommended in your district which will provide more insight into your family’s rights.
Separation is a limbo that allows one or both parties to control and/or be controlled. Protect your family not be blindsided again. If his life were to be upset, he would vent in your direction. Independence is great for all!
Wishing you and child the best.

Re: DON'T KNOW HOW TO LET GO

I am the same. You know what I do I go Pinterest to search quotes for inspiration sometimes helps. But most of the time I feel like you.

Re: DON'T KNOW HOW TO LET GO

Jessica please text me, let's talk (502) 465-6486

Re: DON'T KNOW HOW TO LET GO

I would love to talk. when is a good time to text

Re: DON'T KNOW HOW TO LET GO

I’m so sorry to see so many women in the same boat. My husband of 13 years left me for another woman on our daughter’s birthday which was also 2 days before our anniversary vacation. When I stopped asking him to come home 2 weeks after the fact he started to harass me. A month after he left, he came and tried to force himself on me and threatened to kill me (as he has many times before). The police were called and he faked a heart attack to prevent being arrested. The next day, he took all the money, emptied out our safe deposit boxes and checks himself into the hospital the day of every court date to evade a hearing. I’m struggling financially and he doesn’t care to contribute even though we have two kids. I feel so hurt, scared and confused.

Re: DON'T KNOW HOW TO LET GO

I have been having some difficulty coping with the breakdown of my marriage. I constantly annoy my ex husband who has now moved on and has a partner and I hate myself for it. He now hates me calls me mental and that I’m not right I’n my head. But I’m just consumed with jealousy. Any tips to help me deal with this better would be so welcome. Thanks Helena.

Re: DON'T KNOW HOW TO LET GO

I have been having some difficulty coping with the breakdown of my marriage. I constantly annoy my ex husband who has now moved on and has a partner and I hate myself for it. He now hates me calls me mental and that I’m not right I’n my head. But I’m just consumed with jealousy. Any tips to help me deal with this better would be so welcome. Thanks Helena.

Re: DON'T KNOW HOW TO LET GO

Feels sad JESSICA after hearing about you. Though your situation is quite difficult it is not that difficult also to move on. It is great that you are taking therapy. Sometimes some situation is not in our hands. We do not know what the future has stored for us. My friend as going through the same situation as of yours. She took the help of a psychic like Voyance Direct. She wanted to know is their hope that his husband will come back to her or not. My friend told her problems to the psychic and the psychic advice on the problem. Even you can take help if you want to know about it.