Liz: I would look on line to see the divorce laws in your State and find another Lawyer and tell them what you have written here about the situation. If he is working and has no rent, you should not have to give him money every month. He should be paying his own bills, also. If you cannot afford bills connected to where you live, you may have to move someday or get a responsible roommate where you are or move and get one to help with rent. This is not a long marriage.