Hi Robert Thanks for your words, here's an update for you, I did look, I opened my heart and for once open my mind and WOW!! I experienced the holy spirit enter my body and everything now make sense and is wonderful. In fact I am soon to be baptised , Thanks again and God Bless

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the only suggestion I can give is to actually look into the story of Jesus. every other religion, including atheism and agnostism, have founders that have remained dead. however, Christianity claims that Jesus resurrected. look into this claim and see if it's supported by historical evidence. you can get the skeptical view from this web page but i suggest reading "The Case for Christ" by Lee Strobel and "Evidence That Demands a Verdict" by Josh McDowell for the Christian's perspective. if Jesus did resurrect, He has more credentials than anyone else in history and is worth following.

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A year ago my wife and I had a stillborn baby @ 24 weeks, more recently my wife suffered a miscarriage at 12 weeks. Clearly both incidents were extremely upsetting for both of us, my wife has turned to the church for comfort and support and is now well on the way to becoming baptised and following the faith to the letter. She tells me that she is at peace as it was god's will and he is the all powerful. She has got a lot of emotional support & continues to so. I unfortunately can not subscribe to this way of thinking and am feeling somewhat left out of the marriage equation. At the most base level I provide her with food and shelter and God provides her with love, emotional support & contentment. I am happy that she have found a way of coping with the devastating events over the last year however I unsure and worried where we are heading. I also believe that my own insecurity is clouding my own emotions and would be grateful for any advice or like experiences.