let me start from the beginning, we got married in june of 09 i left 6 months after because he was abusive, we ended up talking and going out on our anniversary...( the time i was gone he moved someone else in) anyway i ended up moving back in, things were going good, for a bit... Since this time, there is no affection and sex is rare... we both have kids to previous marriages... My girls do everything around the house, his son is lazy, when my husband says somethng to my step son, the step son yells at him and swears at him, then my hubby get ****** and takes it out on me or the girls.... I have got between him going after my girls different times, because he was mad at his son... husband works out of town i only see him 2 maybe 3 days out the week... I try to talk to him about how i feel and he gets mad... I am really thinking that he met someone while out of town, he drinks all the time and gets really mad and started yelling when i try to talk about "us" he tells me its me... im ready to leave, just not sure if i am over reacting... please any advise would be great...

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