Thank you who responded to my post about being married for 41 yrs and having my husband cheat on me. It's comforting to hear your words of encouragement. I take it one day at a time. That is all I can handle. Spoke to a financial advisor today. Get this! It happened to her mother. She was married for 38 yrs. This woman has offered to help me for FREE. Unbelievable. I have so may women supporting me through this. I actually feel stronger. She assured me I would be alright, even if I can't see that for now. She said she would help me all along the way. Incredible. She stressed that I take good care of myself right now through this nightmare. I am trying.

There ARE good people on this earth. I think sometimes going through our own struggles and trials helps us to understand and have more compassion for others. This is one lesson of many I have learned throughout my divorce. I'm so glad you have found someone who can really help you with this.

Susan