I've been asking my husband for over a year to get a divorce. I've even filed the papers but he still will not move out. Being spiteful he is withholding money to pay our conjoined bills such as utilities, mortage etc..(and this has caused me to deplete my savings. We don't have minor children and my lawyer said they unless physical violence he can stay until the judge orders one of us to move out....I feel so trapped.
I went through the same thing for over a year, he basically lived with another woman & came home only to do laundry & I still couldn't get him out because, as you say, there was no physical (plenty of mental) abuse.
Our divorce is finally final & he is gone! Yeah! Happy day! One day he will HAVE to leave. Good luck!