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Totally disgusted and scared

Well, had the mediation yesterday, a waste of $200. No agreement. He wants 50/50 custody so that he has to pay the minimum of support....like I said before, the problem with that is that his work schedule will prevent this. He works 8am till 8 or 8:30 pm m-f. He wants to give our son to his (legally disabled) mother so he doesn't have to pay as much, when I am HOME. I am terrified. His mother, who pushed me in my home, so that my husband and I couldn't talk alone, and who kept my child from me on thanksgiving. He still isn't paying his bills and still isn't giving us any money....none...not even the $200. His lawyer tells him that he can get the 50/50, but I can't imagine a judge giving our child to his mother over me. She is on disability and has had 2 heart attacks. He is 7. Temp. relief hrg. is the end of Sept. I can't sleep over this....am I worrying more than I have to?

Thanks you so much.