Hi,I am new here.Cant seem to find the chat room or schedule for it. Going through a divorce after 34 yrs of marriage. Think I know it is for the best. But I cant believe the roller coast of emotions attached to this. We lost our 21 yr old son 3 yrs go. And the emotions although so much worse for that. Almost feel similar. Any one going through the same?

You know losing someone special can make a marriage go on the rocks becuase there are so many emotions going on. I would highly suggest counseling. If you don't have the money to see one, then call any counselor and see if they can suggest a community place that you can go to. Perhaps, they can take you with out a fee. I would go to a counsler because death does weird things to everyone involved.