I have been married for almost 12 yrs I had three children within 6 yrs gained 50 pounds that I haven't been able to lose due to medical conditions asthma, thyroid and kidney issues. Now all the time my husbands being secretive hiding things yelling at me out of no where, looks at porn almost all the time when asked why he said its because they actually have a figure and are pretty, then i caught him putting ads online for sexual partners when i asked him about that he lies and says its not me. I dont know what to do im not working have no money hes made sure the only vehicle we have is in his name only, If i file for divorce hes already said he wont pay support cause he works under the table what should i do please someone help.