So true, Kat. Sometimes we have to step back and take our rose-colored glasses off and realize who these men really are by their true actions. I never thought I would lose my love or respect for my husband (now ex), but when you really get a good look at them after your love has faded, you will know it was so not worth it....all the tears, the heartache, the rejected love, the disrespect, the coldness, the selfishness...etc....

The key is to take all that love and care that you feel for your husband and turn it back on to you and your children.... Where it REALLY counts.

Susan