I am so happy for you!! Hold onto this feeling, when bad days come, return to this feeling to remind you that bad days will pass and get better again. You have begun your adventure, enjoy yourself as life unfolds all it holds for you!
Sue, can I just ask if ceasing all contact helped the healing process? Was it difficult at first?
I ask because I have been asking for no contact because our constant daily contact appears to be stopping me from moving on, when he didnt contact me for five days I was panic struck for first 3 days but I stopped constantly checking my phone by day 4, day 5 I was sad but not climbing the walls. We have never got further.
Just curious.
So good days are possible! There is hope for us all . Hope you have lots more.