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Re: For all of us dealing with the green eyed monster

Would be nice if that were true in my case. The gf is the biggest biznatch who ever lived, and has made no bones about lying her head off to me to "keep me away" from my ex.

So there have been several such conversations, and each one makes me dislike her even more -- because I know she has been lying to me AND to him. Just a nasty, miserable, unhappy person...and she is making him the same as she is. It seems like my ex's gf is like your ex...say anything, do anything, to get what you want and make the other person nuts...

HAHAHA!! Know how we have to type the security code at the end of a post? Mine is 'EX 86'!! 1986 is when we met! LMAO!

Re: For all of us dealing with the green eyed monster

Just have to comment on what you said about the code we have to type. usually nonsense right, but you had one with meaning to you? One of my recent ones..."PRAY".

Re: For all of us dealing with the green eyed monster

Oh, let me tell you. There is nothing better than you living your life and doing the right thing and taking care of your children, paying the bills, going to work and moving on and ignoring what he says or does. At first it is so hard because most men will fall into the arms of another woman right away and you feel so alone and undesirable and miserable and unloved and scared because you wonder if any other man will want you (they will) but then after a little while you as well as everyone else around you see the whole wine and roses scenerio for them is a farce. I feel sorry for the OW who ended up with my former spouse. I tried to warn her but she had to have him so be it. The thing to remember is this--there is a reason he is an EX. She is getting your leftovers anyway.

It is a wonderful thing when you get enough time and distance from him and you can see that the only reason you liked him was because you loved him and you most likely only loved him because you had put so much time and effort into the relationship. That you were devoted and committed and death do us part. That you were not a quitter even though he was a jerk. That you realize you can do allot better without him than you ever did with him. That it was not YOU but HIM all this time and that is why you struggled and were miserable and thought you were crazy because he would never cheat on you and how could you think that? Sure.

Give it some time. You will be so proud of yourself and how well you will do. Peace of mind is absolutely priceless. The best revenge is to live well and look gorgeous and be happy. Focus on your new improved life and leave him to his little cheater ways because he cannot trust her and she knows she cannot trust him. They are their own worst enemy. Plus you and your children will always be put ahead of her financially. I would not want to be her at all. You might even come to the place where you feel sorry for her.

They are the same old DAs and never change. The OW will not put up with their sh*t for as long as we did because they do not have children with them and they do not feel so obligated to make it work. I don't blame them either. So the OW will walk and they will fall into the arms of another OW and so on and so on.

Sit back and watch. It is quite entertaining what fools these men make of themselves.

SAM

Re: For all of us dealing with the green eyed monster

Amen SAM!

Re: For all of us dealing with the green eyed monster

Make that a double AMEN!!!