My ex never wore his ring except the day we got married. I gave up on trying to get him to wear it, he didnt like rings. I wore mine faithfully for our whole marriage. When he left I threw the wedding ring at him, but I kept the engagement ring (it is worth way more money than the wedding band) I will never sell it though, and I do wear it but on my right hand. Why? I dont know, maybe cause i dont want to lose it if i ever really need money someday? Or i just keep it as a reminder of what wasnt worth anything to him.