Hi Kat

Every day can be a rollercoaster for quite some time, we will all get there in the end. Just dont be hard on yourself if there are days when things get the better of you and you dont always react as you might have wished.
We take on the responsibility of getting our children through this and perhaps over chastise ourselves when we are struggling. Then we heap a load of guilt on top of everything else.

One day I am strong the next not so but I dont feel Ive failed when I have a bad day, I try see it for what it is. Ive started being easier on myself. You must remember Kat that its ok to not be strong 24/7.
Be kind to yourself.

This site has inspired and helped me so much I am trying to implement a similar forum at my work for clients (domestic violenece). I have been off work but told my manager about this site, explaining that when unable to face anyone I could log on here and get so much strength and support and mostly hope. She thinks its a wonderful idea, I know it is.

Where better to get strength than from those who have shared exactly what you feel, all at different levels in the process. This place and all the Ladies on here are truly a lifeline.

Hi Abbey,I posted again tonight about a hundred different feelings and emotions I am going through. I want to Thank you for your kindness and understanding, It really means alot to me. Love, Kris

Hi Lori, I just reread your last response to me,Thank you foe making me feel better, Love Kris