Everything in divorce is negotiable. I have a friend who divorced 2 years ago. It was in the divorce papers that the ex pay for her to get her master's....for pretty much the same reason...she stayed home for many years and cared for the kids while her career was put on the back burner.
thank you, I will contact the lenders and see what happens, and I guess i will talk to my lawyer if and when my ex starts the divorce..I dont have money to get it started