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Re: Need restraining order

Think long and hard before you do anything. I did not allow my ex visitation because he moved and I had NO IDEA where he was living...I took him to court and now I OWE him make up days. The judge did not like my "self help" route. He broke custody orders the entire time se have been apart but I have to just deal with it.
If you are truly scared then get a PFA but if you are doing it because you are mad remember it could bit you in the butt.
Best of Luck to you

Re: Need restraining order

Hannah,

ask yourself what is best for your daughter, irrelelvant of the money.
If I stopped conatact linked to child support my son would be asking for a photo to recognise his dad. However my son loves his dad to bits. Contact has been maintained (except a short blip where it was needed to ensure the wellbeing of my child). I wouldnt want to lose that bond for my childs sake. Though it would certainly make my life easier!