Girl, I am in the same boat, what is it about these men thinking that they are God's greatest and that we women are merely there, and when they just decide they dont want us anymore they just want to be friends, to make life easier for us. Mine left me 3 months ago, after 24 years of a great marriage, and said it was because i
did not keep my kitchen clean enough.
I don't know whether the best way to completely get over someone is to get under someone else, but it can help. Get out and meet people. Regain control of your life. It's ironic, a business partner and I were discussing a way to make it easier for divorcees to start dating again without any pressure. So we said hey, why not build a food dating website where you can meet people to have dinner with. Does this sounds like something that would be appealing to the community? If so, we might start building it.
Maybe you could add something I was thinking about a few years back. I thought wouldn't it be nice to have someplace to sign up somewhere if you wanted to see a local movie some night and not have to sit by yourself. You could find someone who wants to see the same movie and maybe it could build into something more than a friendship, but you would have to set up safety issues. Maybe you could even have it where you would just want another woman as a friend...rather than another man if you are not up to feeling like it is a date and just wanted the company of another woman. "Just a thought."