EXACTLY!!!!! Well put! It's ALL about control!

I dont want to totally scare you but. My friend was in the same situation.Divorced living on her own with her kids. She started dating, the son mentioned it to his dad. The man walked in her house one night and shot her in the back as she was running to get away from him. Her 13 yr old was upstairs, and the son holds enormous guilt. He has life in prison, but those kids have no mom. PLEASE be careful.

That is horrible! I would like to think that my ex isn't a complete and utter sociopathic ******* ... plus he hates guns so I doubt that would ever happen. No, the worst I foresee from him is that he'll try to tell the kids that, now that I "have a new man", I won't have time for them.