We were married 363 days before he got really mad, threw me out and said it was over. (Still don't know why) I am in PA, which I know is a no fault state.

Since he threw me out, I came home to my parents.

In the mean time, he stole all my identity items/documents. (SS card, birth certificate, medical records, my checking account, our joint account, mortgage papers, my teaching cert and credentials) I could not get a job, and my lawyers told me to wait it out. I eventually had to pay for a new teaching cert and get a duplicate of my SS card. He did give SOME items back.

Then he tells our relator that he refuses to pay for the mortgage unless I relinquish my half of the house.
We bought the house 6 months before we were married. I never could afford the mortgage, cause he was the breadwinner- and he was ALWAYS okay with that. (Esp since I quit my job to move away from him and start a new career-OUR goal-ha)

Now, I have the debt collectors calling me, and I did get a notice about the house saying that it will be going into foreclosure unless it is paid for. (BTW- the notice went to his house, which he then sent to me at my parent's house)

The debt collector told me that I can get my name off the deed, which means no debt, and I don't know what to do cause he wanted me to do that before. SO I don't know if this more his scheme.

Granted, a month later after he threw me out, he moved back home to his parents. And I don't know if he knows about the whole thing that I can get my name off the deed- and that was his whole goal.?? I am concerned cause I have been hearing that the bank/debt collectors can still hold people responsible for house's unpaid bills. Anyone know about that??

And it drives me absolutely nuts cause he is pulling in 2400 a month, I am barely making 200 a week!

Also, we are not on talking terms- and he is not giving up his information regarding our joint wedding money that he has in his mutual funds.

I appreciate any comments or help. I really dispise this situation.

Lissa, this is such a mess that possibly nobody knows how to reply. Sorry.

I agree. It's not that none of us care, we are just without a reply. We're great listeners, though

You will need a good lawyer. In my area, there is a women's right center where we can get legal help to get started. See if you have something like that where you live. They should be able to help you out.