yeah mine said the same thing that it was all my fault and that i drove him crazy, i changed not him, which it wasn't me and everyone knew that but his family stuck by him cause i was the outsider. if you are not divorced yet but you got married in germany then you do need to get a permanent green card here. If you go through a divorce (which I think you should cause he sounds just as controlling as mine (i can admit to myself that we need to be divorced even tho it's the worst thing possible to me)) then whatever lawyer you get should be able to help with that process, you are technically a citien through marriage, if you can't afford one, from what i have found out, there are some that will do it pro bono, (free) and some will do it based on your income.
We got married in 2007 in germany. I came to U.S. 2009.
I do have my social security card also my permant resident card. I have to do send my papers to get the new green card..so I can stay here for good. If he want to divorce me so that I can still stay here and keep my job. I guess and hope I can still stay here. And we are still married. What you think?
No there is no way for me to go back to germany for good. I have to get a schengen visa to enter germany..and its just for 90days the most. My rights to enter germany died..
I know this is no consolation or much help to you however I believe The Lord is coming back soon & that our suffering will not be ongoing. There are so many signs that are in The Book of Revelation, coming to pass.
If you can do whatever it is you need to do, right now, to make sure you are safe & try not to project too far into the future. I think there are many upheavals on the horizon for everyone, but with a Holy Outcome, The Lord's Return.
With the internet & fast/easy connections nowadays, so many are finding themselves, married, moved across the country or world, then homeless & starting over.
The Word also speaks about the easy access of knowledge in the end times. Know you are not alone.
There are so many going through what you are going through. Pray to God For Protection, to be your Spouse/ your Father. He Is Always With us. ALWAYS.