Bankruptcy is an option I am giving serious consideration to. I have an appointment with my attorney next week. I have NEVER missed a payment in my life-until now. It is scary and frustrating, not to mention embarassing. But I can only control what I can control, and this is something I have lost control of.
Becky, I just searched, "having to file bankruptcy after divorce." I am not sure about posting links here, but if you google that, there's one link that it's almost inevitable that bankruptcy goes hand in hand many times in divorce. I am quite shocked & it's very humbling, to learn what I have in the divorce. Also, my ex didn't pay on his part of the debt. I think one does what they have to, after weighing all options.
God Knows All & The Truth in what we are going through.
Becky, you're welcome. Something I'm finding through this divorce & in life, is making sure to take one day at a time & not project too far ahead. There are things that I have to deal with that are just more than I am able to almost think about, but if I just set the smaller goals & leave some to later on, helps. There are issues that resolve themselves, some I am able to actually deal with without any trouble whereas maybe a month earlier I would not have, etc. It all works out for HIS GLORY in the end.
Some days I need a really big telescope, others I can just open my eyes.. (to see The Glory).
at least Heaven there will be, "no more pain or sorrow."