Becky, it is exhausting. I spent so much time it seems dealing with have to's in this divorce. I am still not done but about 1/2 way there. The financial is nearly complete. YES, lots of information & paperwork.
I think what amazes me is that I know that ex moved on, left everything to me to deal with. However, if one is talking character, at least I am responsible enough to deal with it, he never was & proved that (didn't pay on the debt).
It's like we are doing the work of both parties by ourselves +. I think the support comes in terms of others that have been through this..
God Sees All. :)

Hang in there! My theory is that as long as it isn't getting worse & there's progress, I'm happy!
& I do feel @ peace. It's just so much work & such a difficult road to walk in getting to where we need to be post divorce.