yeah...I agree...time for him to grow up.
funny how he moved into his grandma's house...to her, he is like the golden boy, the second coming...he can do no wrong and she is doing his laundry and patting his poor head when the ex wife of his says...call after 7:30 please...grow down is what he seems to be doing, but I am through and he is no longer on my list of emotional concerns!
Wow, it feels great to write that!

I, too, am truly at a place where I don't care what my stbx does as long as it doesn't affect me or the kids. I have to admit, though, that sometimes I am very curious. For example, on my way to work I drive past the house of one of his friends. His friend is married and they have children. The stbx's vehicle was parked in the driveway that morning...obviously had been there all night. My stbx lives close by. Just get curious. It's like what the H***? Lots of things he's doing now that I had no idea were of interest to him. Together for 17 years and I didn't know? But truly I DON'T CARE! And yes, it does feel good to be there.

As to not caring what they do anymore...


AMEN to that! I so agree!