Look I think I can relate. I had been with this man for more than 20ys. and then one day he decided I longer live up to his image and had to find another woman. Big Foot works with him. He thinks she is woman of his dreams, He still calls me to let me know his plans, when he is having my son over. I play right into his hands and let him tell me what he is up to with her. I have tried to tell him how his Big Foot is getting between him and our kids, time after time, he don't care. I have stopped I will no longer talk to him about anything that is not about out son. I have decided he is no longer worth the time or my energy. If you have your kids with you make the best of it. Have fun with them and make it like, they are the most important people in your life. One thing I have to learn is to just not forget about me. I need to take care of me too.

Take care and do something for yourself today. Don't try to solve problems that you know we can't.