Believe me I plan to use his rush to get remarried to my advantage. Maybe I should ask for 60% of the equity? I want him out of my life but I have LOADS of will power. After all if I could endure him cheating and lying to me for 11 years I can hold off on divorce papers for a few more months

What's his hurry, really? From what you've said, he was perfectly content to eat his cake and have it, too, and now he wants to shop at a new bakery? Putz! LOL!

Guess he needs a new wife to cheat on and lie to? Well I guess they should rush to get married they do have a child together..she is 13 (between dating, being married and the divorce we have been together for 14 years) so yeah he is a putz