I agree with Sue. We all have a right to our own opinions and beliefs, but it's the way that we express them (especially on a forum where people are wounded or raw)that counts. In the Bible Christ approached a crowd of people who were going to stone a woman who had "fornicated". He looked at the people around her and spoke..."Let him who has not sinned cast the first stone." No one could. One by one the crowd left...Christ did not agree with what this woman had done, but he forgave her....It was his understanding and love that changed this woman's life...not judgement....there is a time for judgement and it belongs to God not us.