WOW Lisa! I know someone who has Crohn's disease and it is extremely hard to live with it and deal with it. The person I know had to have surgery as well and I know the pain they went through. Crohn's is a very serious condition and something you have to live with for the rest of your life. My heart goes out to you and he is a complete ...hole!!! You deserve so much better. And someday I believe you will find someone who will treat you and love you the way you deserve.
Why do we fall in love with people who don't give as much as we give? Maybe so we can that person who will someday. I have to believe we need travel down a certain road to get to the one where we will find real happiness & love.
Mine proposed on Vday also which makes it even worse. I know think it should be banned. Everyday you should show loved ones how much you love them. It just gives guys an excuse to only do it once a year so they can feel good about themselves.