Yes, it can seem like nothing has changed....the same old behavior.
I also think it is the dependency on his cash that lets him keep talking to you like that...
Try to find a way to be financially independent...use some of his money that he pays you...to be self employed...work part time, volunteer at a place you like...or anything that will make you feel better about yourself.
For me, it was no contact....none...except for emails....and even then, I can still feel the same as you for just a short time.