Go to the bank.
See if you are a joint owner on any accounts.
Simply present identification and use the phrase, "I would like to see if I have any accounts here."
If you are a joint owner on the account then you can withdraw money without the other party's permission.
Get out of there as fast as you can, it's called a Leap of Faith. What you won't or haven't done for yourself, do for your children, the most important people in this clip. Trust God, that is really all you have to do. Why pray if you are going to worry and why worry if you are going to pray? I'm just saying . . . . .
Hi Im in the same boat as you and my mom also told me to stick it out cause eventually everyone gets fedup and also if you leave then and find out that he is involved with someone else and moving on you will be able to handle it much better, and trust me parents always see futher in the future, cause your mom might also be worried that you might end up being very depressed and neglecting your child in the process if he moves on with his life and you havent. My husband is verbally abusive every single day of stupid things and he looks for something to vent about, for ten years now he havent lifted a finger towards me so lucky me no physical abuse and that I wont allow cause the minute he do anything of that sort I will end everything immediately, so I dont know if your husband is physically abusive but if yes I would say get out, not that verbal abuse is fine dont get me wrong cause verbal abuse is bad for both you and your kids but just hang in their and wait till you emotionally strong enough to leave.