My stbx was a continual flirt with every woman everywhere...except me. To the point it embarrassed our girls. He had emotional affairs during our marriage. Many I believe. Once almost ended it at 17 years. He also went on a website to find someone to screw. It was never enough for him. He began cheating 2 to 4 months before he left. His desire for the new and exciting that he found cheating led to the divorce.