LonelyOne you are in my prayers more than ever. I feel that I know you and understand you so well. Your last comment about the pain of living under the same roof with him as roommates being too painful to bear has come from my mouth so many times. I will be with you in spirit tomorrow when he returns, I have been in your shoes 7 times, waiting hopefully for my much loved husband's return, and it will soon be 8 times. I will pray for the return you want, for all to go well. Be careful LonelyOne, I have learned that sometimes when we hope so much it is so very easy to misread anything. But I have also learned that sometimes what we think we see is real.