It is something once the smoke clears a bit and you can see the situation for what it really was, isnt it?

When you are in love and married to a user, your self confidence comes crashing down too. He used you, but you are out now.
I know how you feel about looking at the man you once loved and not recognizing him. I think I'm scared that it was my love that created the man. That he never really existed in the first place.

But once everything is done with, take comfort that you can move on.