I can't listen to much music either. After 30 years I am bound to hear a song from my past with stbx. So instead, I listen to an alternative Christian radio station, Air 1. It's all upbeat rock music, with a message that someone loves me and always will: God.

There's a song by Lily Allen that I listen to every single time WK pi$$es me off...it's called, simply, 'F*** You'! ^_^

And another angry feminist folk strummer, Ani DiFranco, has a song called 'Untouchable Face'...pretty much the same sentiment, in prettier words.