Kathleen, you are not crazy. He sounds a bit off, but you are a dear. I can tell from your posts. It is amazing how we love so deep that we overlook how we are treated and just do all we can to not rock the boat. I know that is what I did, and it sounds like what you did, too. I am sorry that he is so cold and unfeeling. My stbx is, too, but it's because he has a new exciting toy--his gf. I am sure that living with him makes it so difficult for you. I can't imagine. It has been so good for me the last two weeks since the papers are nearly done, and I told him I had nothing to say to him that it is between the lawyers now. No texts no emails just sweet peace. I know, I sound unfeeling, and I am not. It's just I have to accept what is happening and I am planning my new life. I hope you can get on with yours soon. Hang in there!