Surely this is a crank post right? If not you do need alot of help with this! There is never ever a reason for domestic violence! I would greatly recommend a therapist here. If this isn't a gag your house must have been really unsanitary and I can't imagine the odor. Again if this isn't a joke your husband must have felt it was very disrespectful to your daughters memory.
I am with Kathleen, I believe you need help. How can you put trash in your dead daughter's room. That is really disrespectful in your part, but also that is not a reason for violence.
I am probably putting my foot in my mouth, Im good at that, but this sounds like a load of crap. If you are truly telling the truth, im very sorry, but if this is some kind of joke...the women on here are truly suffering. We hurt in a way you should pray you never experience. This isnt funny.
It must be a miserable life to live to have nothing better to do than make up stupid stuff to put on a website that is here to help people. I think someone needs serious help. . .straight jacket. . .padded room