Jane is probably Jake and Chi Chi as well still trolling. I would just ignore any negative comments made by anymore posts. Just making a pretty good guess.
Kathleen,
I think the comment was meant to be sarcastic ie. a women's place is in the kitchen & the computer reference was about posting on the divorce site. Perhaps it's the same individual that has been posting the other negative comments
I think Jane just needs to be ignore. Maybe he/she should go back to the kitchen and stay off the computer.
Anyhow I too felt the same when I got married. If I would have listened to all the signs then I would not be here now..but then I wouldn't have the two boy who mean the world to me. My wedding day was miserable, I hated every minute of the planning and the actual day I was physically sick because of his family...