Yes, hang in there and get what you deserve. He is just trying to make life miserable enough that you will give up. I know its a tough time but when its over you will be glad you stayed true to yourself.
Mrs Miller I found a web site also for divorce, that has forum for military divorce. I just thought you might get some answers there. http://www.divorcesupport.com/divorce/Divorce-Support-Forums-3029.html Hope its helpful.