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Re: Some of best things....

Oh Wow! You hit home with this one!!!

1. No more road rage...It was bad!

2. No more liquor bottles everywhere

3. No more "I don't have any money to take care of that" when he has 4 closets full of clothes and shoes.

4. No more physical violence

5. No more verbal abuse

6. PIECE OF MIND

7. I can watch whatever I want

8. I can come and go as I please

9. Don't have to worry about getting home from work w/i a set amount of time w/o playing 20 questions.

10. No more attitude when my family visits

11. No more calls from his bill collectors (Bills I didn't know he had)...OMG! This should have been #1.

12. I can do more things. He never wanted to go anywhere.

13. No more analyzing everything I say when we are out or talking on the phone.

Thanks for letting me vent. I have more, but don't want to bore anyone. This just makes me happy to know I did the right thing when I left!!!!

Re: Some of best things....

The lists go on and on...
1. No sleeping next to someone who doesn't want to touch me.
2. No crying myself to sleeep (and he knew I was)
3. No miserable grunts about everything
4. Not having to do his laundry
5. No listening to complaining about mess, when he made it too.
6. No more hugs he doesn't want to give me anyway.
7. No kisses that he hated to give me.
8. No more feeling like crap because I know he doesn't care about anyone but himself.
9. No constant crying because I am so unhappy.
10.Not making excuses for anything.

Wow, they really can build up! hahaha

Re: Some of best things....

1. no more disappointing looks
2. no more demeaning words(even though he still does it)
3. no more looking as his face.
4. no more "I can't save money because of you"
5. no more having to put up with his bad moods.
I can go on and on like every one else here. This was a great post.