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On the edge

So today my stbx told me that he was not going to let me have full physical custody of our child it should be joint for our autistic son while I am living in North Carolina and he is in Nevada and if he is not able to fulfill his joint custody obligations his sister will fill in for him and that 700 a month for child support is too much. Then the a**hole told me that no judge would ever give me full custody I am so angry that I had to laugh and I told him whoever has been pecking at your ear and giving you divorce tips can go jump in the f**king lake together. Oh and the only reason he wants joint custody is so he only has to pay like 200 a month in child support wow what a man!!!!!! I could key his car (Lol) but I am not.

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I want to key my stbx new fx jaguar too. He bought it to impress & buy his OW. When she faces reality & realizes he does not have the money, he is up to his ass in debt. I would love to be a fly on the wall when she does because that is the only reason she is going after him & destroying our marriage.

Re: On the edge

I am so sorry. It seems as though men destroy the marriage and still get away with murder during the divorce. I pray that everything works out in your favor. The legal system sucks!!

Re: On the edge

Well I think you stbx is in for a surprise. If he is living in Nevada, there is no way he can have his son 50% of the time and unless HE can fullfill that obligation he is going to have to pay full child support. He cannot have his sister have your son when he is not around and count that as his time. Good try but its not going to fly.

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Dear Mrs. Miller, Did you get a lawyer to help you? This is a prince of a man. Leaves you high and dry with a disabled child then wants to take the food out of his childs mouth. I believe you will fair better in the court than what he is telling you. The worst thing we can do is listen to them! They are not the judge in a court of law!

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Katheen I have seen a few lawyers in Nevada, but I am weighing whether I should file in NV or NC. He worried about me taking food out his mouth but you would try to give your child the least possible he sure is a prince the prince of thieves.

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I highly doubt he will get physical custody. One, he is too far away. Two, that would be tramatic on your autistic child. I wish you luck.

Re: On the edge

man r a**holes

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Mrs Miller if you are planning to move, move then file for divorce, because once the divorce goes through the move will be another fight. In my divorce we have a clause where it states that only you and the ex are the one to take care of the child. If you need a babysitter you will have to call him and vice versa. You should try to get that in, that way you can be sure he is spending time with your son.

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That's going into our agreement, too, although it's an irrelevant point since here it is state law.