In our custody orders I get the kids Mother's day between 1 and 7. Father's day he gets them between 1 and 7 as well. I just assumed this was a normal thing, I never asked for it. Mother's Day wasn't even a thought to me at the time. I am so sorry you will not have your child(ren) there with you on this special day. Like the other ladies said,Go out and try to do something special for yourself, you deserve it.