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You dont have a bad life together??? Really??? What you describe is SO unhealthy. He sound very controlling and manipulative, and to me these questions he is posting to you are just another attempt at that. You are absolutely not being selfish. Dont let him make you think otherwise.
Thank you Chris, I know he is very manipulative and is continuously trying to convince me to change my mind. Again, I am trying to stay strong and remain steadily working towards my ultimate goal of being "FREE". Hope you have a fantastice day.