I guess the one good thing about what happened with my husband and kids is that he is not allowed to see them so I dont have the custody issue to deal with. My kids really miss their dad even though they have pain over what he did, he has no job because he is a registered sex offender so it leaves me with absolutly no child support but I guess I would rather it be that way then have to fight for my kids. My sympathies are with those of you that have to fight this battle. God Bless

Have you documented everything? I think that is all of our biggest worry...our kids. My attorney led me to believe that since I have had primary custody since he left, and he did leave me, then it would be harder for him to get custody now if he asked for it. I have documented all of his visits, how long they were for, when he came late, when he changed the plans, when the kids called me 10 times in a day while they were with him, etc. Let us know how it is going. (((Hugs)))