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Re: Kids health insurance

I am amazed you should have to pay anything. My ex always provided full insurance for our children. I however also put them on my coverage and between both of ours I never really paid any out of pocket. It really came in handy when my youngest daughter had to be hospitalized in a mental hospital. You might get some prices if you bought coverage independent from him for just the children. I sold insurance for thirty years and the rate for adults is much higher than children after the first year of their lives. Give him the figures for your portion given to you by his benefits dept based just on your children and give him that. I am under the impression you will pay for one child and him one. If he wants more let him go to court and see if they are going to make you pay more. I would tell him to call his benefits dept. and find out for himself what the cost for YOUR CHILDREN ONLY would be. He really does want his cake and eat it to!

Re: Kids health insurance

I did send him the email his benefits dept. sent me. He replied back that he doesn't understand the figures and is going to talk to her himself and get back to me.

I did call my insurance to see what it would be to add one kid to my individual policy - it would be an additional $50 a month. The deductibles would be higher and we'd have more out of pocket expenses. But it makes sense that what his benefits person told me is in line with what it is for kids only.

I'm sure he's just royally ****** off that I actually did my homework on this and didn't just take his word for it. By now you'd think he'd figure it out that I don't believe a word he says and I do my homework on everything :-)

He thought I'd be paying almost $200 a month and now it appears I will only be paying $48. He's been complaining how he pays $900 a month in health insurance for all of them. Well, I'm not subsidizing his family plan!!! He doesn't like it, too bad. Maybe his homewrecking ********** should get a job and pay her fair share around there :-)