Jerk left on the Saturday before Easter last year, so he's been gone just over a year. Our 15th anniversary was yesterday. The papers should have been in the judge's hands. I'm wondering what the chances are they were signed on our anniversary??? At first he wanted to make small talk and be all friendly. I would have no part of it. Answered only the questions I had to in order to deal with the kids or the divorce itself. Was short and cold. But I also didn't give him the satisfaction of EVER seeing me get angry. He so feeds off that. He backed off when he wasn't getting any satisfaction from it. That helped a lot. The good thing about graduation is that there will be so many others around. Really no need to talk to him, right? YOU CAN DO THIS!