Re: husband is threatening to take our 16 yr old son to Montana for the summer.
Initially I just opened up my own account, but it didn't take me long to realize that I needed a separate bank. He wanted to transfer money here or there and it was tough to keep it all documented.
Your son is 16. How does he feel about this? I think you should have a heart to heart conversation with him in which he knows that visitations should be planned. Choose your words carefully, but let him know that his whereabouts and his safety are important to you.