I am so depressed and stressed out, my son to be ex husband will not move out and just lays around all day while my mom takes care our 3 year old!

Document it all in case you need it in court. I'm glad you have the support of your family. And, on the bright side, he's soon-to-be-ex, soon-to-be-gone.

i know this is a personal topic would you be able to fill out a survey for an a assessment i have for school on the effects of divorce on children.

just copy and paste the link in the web address bar

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