Worked with WK for a couple hours yesterday. It was quite pleasant; we talked, we laughed, we talked some more, we laughed some more. It was nice to actually enjoy his company instead of having to watch every word coming out of my mouth.

At one point, he felt compelled to show me the picture of the Beast's grandchild that he has as the interior wallpaper on his phone. What made me laugh was that he stated he put it there to showcase the blankets and quilts and what-not that the child is surrounded by in the picture, which were all made by him. Riiiiight. I'm sure he expected me to coo and ooh and ahh, and say "what a cute baby". Didn't happen. 'Cause the child, sad to say, is not cute, and I thought until now that there could not possibly be any such thing as a non-cute baby. Well, apparently, such a thing does exist.

Not to mention that he didn't once refer to this kiddo as "my grandchild". Just "the grandchild". For a man who adores babies as much as he does to make a statement like that, without so much as a fond grin on his face, shows that something's rotten in the state of Denmark.

I also had to ask if he was done being punished for calling me last week.....he stated that she "doesn't get involved" regarding his communications with me. I told him that, if he really believed that she didn't go through his phone and look for messages between us, he was out of his mind. I know she does, she's just that type. We'd had a conversation earlier this year through text messages, I think I posted about it on here - he sent me a picture of a newly completed project, and she found out, and lost her sh** on him. So, I think healthy skepticism over her "not getting involved" is definitely called for here.

Now comes the day of the event; it's tomorrow, in fact. And he will be working directly with our daughter, which will be very nice for her, since she loves to spend time with him. We hung out yesterday, and it was nice...I just don't know what will happen tomorrow. Or what I want to happen, if anything. Eeeep.

Wow. You are braver than me. I still don't want to be in the same room as my ex. I can stand it but just don't want to.

Don't worry too much about what happens and enjoy your daughter's thing. Stuff will happen as it does and I wouldn't worry about it. Have a good time this weekend.

I am with Disillusioneddesertgirl I could not be working with the flea. You are just to brave to do that. I have seen the flea more now that we are divorce than when we were married, due to my son doing sports. Question if Jerk were to get an idea of two back together would you go for it?? I sounds like you both are getting along.

Ya know, I don't think I would. He has hurt me too many times, and never apologized as though he was truly remorseful and truly regretted hurting me. In fact, when we were first separating, I would get vile, hurtful texts, from his phone, that Beast wrote, saying things like, 'You wanted him to be happy, well he is happy!' and 'No he told u you just didnt hear him so now im telling u accept it and move on he loves me'. (Complete with the lack of punctuation, capitalization, and CLASS!)

Oh yes, and the classic, in a phone call that she initiated - again, from his phone - the "well, I'm telling you all these nasty horrible things because he never wanted to hurt you!" Implication being that nothing would please her more than to hurt me, of course.... This is the thing that has bugged me all along. Not once has he ever told me that it's her he loves. Not once. At all. And that, to me, is telling...