Dear ladies, Memorial Day is the day we remember not only the brave men and women who have paid the greatest sacrifice for our country but to remember our own dead as well. Maybe this would be a good time to remember the death of the marriages and relationships we have given the greatest sacrifices to as well. Reflecting that they have passed on now and like those in our lives who have left us we morn them and then go on with life. Life is for the living. Love, caring, attention is for the living relationships not those which are now dead and buried. God give us the peace to put these hard times and pain and grief behind us. Maybe to remember once a year but not to cloud our new lives. May you all enjoy this time to stop and appreciate the living relationships in your lives.

Kathleen! What great words! I have prayed to stop feeling so angry all the time for what has happened. You're words came at the right time. I thank you.