This really disturbs me. I hope you saved the message! You don't need to care how the flea acts about this. You have to protect your child. This rocks his security. Tell the flea you can discuss this like two adults or you can discuss it in court. There needs to be boundaries set in regards to drinking. If you both drank every day that is a drinking problem! I'm so glad you have realized that and modified your drinking. If you only have an occasional beer why bother? I was a child of an acoholic father and had a very tramatic childhood. Isn't your son seeing a therapist? The drinking could be a large part of your son's problems. This is not something to take lightly!!!!!! What ever you do keep the message. My grandson's father is so afraid because we have a tape of him threatening my daughter.

I only have a second to post, but I dont think that you are making too much out of it at all. Children should not be exposed to that at all. First for the physical and emotional aspect, but it also teaches them less than desirable behavior and can set them up for a lifetime of drinking too.

If your ex truly has a drinking problem and is in denial about it than your probably wont get anywhere with trying to reason with him. Doesnt hurt to try, but it has to be an addicts own decision to change.