Mine too! I gave him everything, looked out for him, watched his back, helped with his work assignments, and for what? To be cheated on, lied to, betrayed and abandoned, all in the name of love.

How can things go so wrong? How did I not see the signs? Why did this happen? I am so sad for the loss of my marriage and my husband. I still love him and am unable to move forward as this is not what I want, its all about him and his new screw! I live day to day, make no plans, because at the end of the day all the plans I had made have gone up in smoke! Feeling very sad and hurt today

Jo, I am so sorry you're having a tough day. We don't see the signs because we trust, because we wouldn't do to them what they have done to us, because we know that we cannot have a strong relationship unless we build it on trust. We are not suspicious by nature, we are loving, caring, nuturing people. We deserve better. Hang in there.